Thinking About Abortion? Talk to Someone First

When faced with an unplanned pregnancy, one of the most significant and often overwhelming decisions you may face is whether or not to have an abortion. This decision is deeply personal and can bring up a range of emotions and concerns. If you’re thinking about abortion, it’s crucial to take the time to talk to someone first—someone who can provide nonjudgmental abortion advice, emotional support, and help guide you through your pregnancy decision.

In this article, we’ll explore the various abortion options available, why it’s essential to speak with someone before making a decision, and where you can find the support and guidance you need during this challenging time.

Understanding Your Abortion Options

Before making any decision, it’s important to understand the different types of abortion available. In general, there are two main types of abortion: medication abortion and surgical abortion.

1. Medication Abortion

Also known as the abortion pill, medication abortion is typically available during the first 10 weeks of pregnancy.¹

This option involves taking two medications—mifepristone and misoprostol. The first medication, mifepristone, blocks the hormone progesterone, which is necessary for the pregnancy to continue. The second medication, misoprostol, causes the uterus to expel the pregnancy.

Medication abortion is often seen as a private, at-home option for ending a pregnancy. However, there are real risks associated with this method so it’s crucial to speak with a healthcare professional or a pregnancy center to learn more about this option for your specific circumstances.

2. In-Clinic Abortion

A surgical abortion is performed by a healthcare provider in a medical setting, such as an abortion clinic or hospital. There are two types of in-clinic abortions:

• Aspiration (Suction) Abortion: Typically performed in the first 13-14 weeks of pregnancy, this procedure involves using a suction device to remove the pregnancy from the uterus.²
• Dilation and Evacuation (D&E): This method is used later in pregnancy, typically after 14 weeks, and involves dilating the cervix and using surgical instruments to remove the pregnancy.³

As with any medical procedure, there are risks and potential complications, which is why it’s important to consult with a healthcare professional beforehand.

Why It’s Essential to Talk to Someone Before an Abortion

Making a decision about whether to get an abortion can be complex. It is not just a medical decision—it’s an emotional, psychological, and spiritual one as well.

This is why it’s crucial to talk to someone before making a decision. Speaking with a Pregnancy Decision Line Coach or a trusted individual can provide clarity, emotional support, and important information.

Nonjudgmental Pregnancy Options Guidance

At Pregnancy Decision Line, one of the most important things you can expect is nonjudgmental guidance as you consider your pregnancy options, including abortion. We are committed to providing a safe space for you to explore your options without feeling pressured or shamed.

You might feel conflicted, anxious, or uncertain about what’s best for you. This is completely normal. Pregnancy Decision Line can offer compassionate and nonjudgmental guidance to help you navigate your emotions, make informed decisions, and move forward in the way that feels right for you.

Emotional Support While You Decide

The emotional toll of deciding whether to have an abortion should not be underestimated. It can be a confusing, stressful, and overwhelming time. You may experience feelings of fear, guilt, sadness, and even isolation. Having access to emotional support during this time is essential for your mental and emotional well-being.

Pregnancy Decision Line coaches can connect you with pregnancy centers that can assist with support groups and other resources to help you make an empowered decision. Sometimes, simply talking to someone who listens can help relieve some of the emotional weight you’re carrying.

Give us a call at 866-406-9327 to find a pregnancy center near you.

Pregnancy Decision Help

If you’re unsure about whether you should get an abortion, it’s important to explore all of your options. Pregnancy Decision Line can connect you with a local pregnancy center that provides pregnancy decision help, including:

• Understanding your pregnancy: Pregnancy centers provide free pregnancy testing and ultrasound services to confirm how far along you are, which will help you understand your options more clearly.
• Discussing all options: The staff will help you consider the full range of options available, including parenting and adoption so that you can make a well-informed decision.
• Emotional support: The staff will help you navigate the emotional aspects of your pregnancy decision, offering a compassionate ear and a safe space to talk through your feelings.

It’s important to give yourself time to process your emotions, gather information, and reflect on what’s best for you. The decision is yours to make, and there’s no rush. Seeking help is a great first step toward making a choice that aligns with your values, goals, and well-being.

Who Can You Talk to About Abortion?

If you’re wondering, “Who can I talk to about abortion?” you’re not alone. It can feel isolating to face this decision, but there are people and organizations available to support you.

1. Pregnancy Decision Line

Pregnancy Decision Line is a great resource for women who are considering abortion. Our staff is trained to offer nonjudgmental abortion education and will help you feel empowered to make the best decision for yourself.

We can also connect you with a local pregnancy center that provides confidential, free services such as pregnancy testing, ultrasounds, options education, and support for women facing unplanned pregnancies. They can help you sort through your options and provide you with the emotional support you need to make an informed decision.

2. Healthcare Professionals

Your doctor or healthcare professional can provide medical guidance about abortion options. They can help you understand the risks associated with each type of abortion and answer any questions you may have about your health and well-being. If you’re considering abortion, it’s important to discuss your options with a healthcare professional who can ensure you are fully informed about the procedure and what to expect.

3. Trusted Friends and Family

Talking to someone you trust, such as a close friend or family member, can also be an important part of the decision-making process. While they may not be able to provide professional advice, they can offer emotional support and help you process your feelings. It’s important to have a support system in place as you move forward.

4. Support Groups and Coaches

If you prefer to talk to someone outside of your personal circle, support groups and coaches can be a valuable resource.

Pregnancy Decision Line offers coaching for women facing difficult pregnancy decisions. We allow you to share your feelings and experiences and can provide much-needed emotional support.

Need Help Deciding?

If you’re unsure about whether abortion is the right decision for you, it’s okay to ask for help. This is a big decision, and taking the time to gather information, talk to trusted individuals, and reflect on your options is important. Reaching out for support doesn’t mean you’re weak—it means you’re taking care of yourself and making a thoughtful, informed choice.

Whether you choose to continue the pregnancy, make an adoption plan, or have an abortion, the key is to make the decision that you can live with long term. And when you’re ready, there are resources available to help you through the process.

Key Takeaways:

• If you’re thinking about abortion, talk to someone first to ensure you have all the information and support you need.
• Pregnancy Decision Line offers nonjudgmental education on abortion and other pregnancy options, emotional support, and pregnancy decision help.
• Your healthcare professional can guide you through the medical aspects of abortion and provide information about the different options available.
• Support from trusted friends, family, and professional coaches can make all the difference during this difficult time.

Thinking About Abortion? Get the Facts at Pregnancy Decision Line.

Making a decision about whether to get an abortion is not easy, but you don’t have to do it alone.

Talking to a Pregnancy Decision Line Coach first can help you make the best decision for your unique situation. Take the time to explore your options, seek out nonjudgmental guidance, and surround yourself with the emotional support you need. The decision is yours, and with the right guidance, you can move forward confidently.

Ready to take the next step? We can connect you with a local pregnancy center that provides free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, and abortion information, so you can make the best decision for your health and future.

Please be aware that Pregnancy Decision Line does not provide or refer for abortion services.